Demri Parrott

Demri Lara Parrott Murphy (February 22nd 1969 - October 29th 1996) was an American model, artist, and muse, and an amateur actress, girlfriend and later fiancee of Alice in Chains singer Layne Staley. Demri was born in Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington, in the United States of America's Pacific Northwest. She was the daughter of Kathleen A. Austin of Seattle and Dennis Wayne Dougherty of Bremerton (1950 - 2011). She had three younger brothers, Devin C. Remme (d. 2010) of Olympia, Derek J.P. Murphy (d. 2002), and David J.M. Murphy, both of Bremerton; and a younger half sister, Christa Dougherty of Bremerton. She was adopted by her stepfather, Stephen John Parrott. She was of Native American (Cherokee), Irish, Scottish, Welsh, English, and Swiss-German descent. She was tiny, dark-featured, with long dark hair and dark eyes. Demri attended at a high school in Arlington, Washington, and dropped at her Junior year (Grade 11) when she was 16. She then went to the High school of Performing Arts in Jacksonville, Florida. Demri was passionate about many things and excelled in art and theater. She was interested in philosophy and poetry, and loved to collect vintage clothes, make decoupage, write poetry and play in front of the camera. Demri was well known and had numerous friends that she touched with her charismatic and enchanting personality. Most of her friends described her as a very sweet and beautiful person, kind, peaceful and artistic. She met musician Layne Staley of Alice in Chains at a store called "Saturdays" where she was working, in 1988. They started dating around spring or summer that year, she is thanked in the liner notes of "Facelift", which was released on August 1990. She is not, as widely but wrongly believed, the woman on the cover of Alice in Chains's album "Dirt", released on September 29, 1992, that is model and actress Mariah O'Brien. Layne Staley and Demri Parrott were, according to close friends and band-mates, described as perfect for each other and the term "soulmates" has been used more than once to define their relationship. They were engaged to marry on 1992. However, in the years that followed "Dirt"'s success, Layne and Demri drifted apart, and their engagement broke sometime in 1994, although she features in the cover of Mad Season's "Above". Mad Season was an American rock super group formed in 1994 as a side project of members of other bands in the Seattle grunge scene (Layne was the lead singer with Pearl Jam's guitarist Mike McCready, drummer Barrett Martin of Screaming Trees and bassist John Baker Saunders). Mad Season released only one album, "Above", in March 1995. Both Demri and Layne became drug addicts, hooked to heroin. In addition, Demri had a cardiac pacemaker in her heart. Although she went to rehab several times, it didn't work to her, and sometimes had to turn to theft and prostitution to get some money for the drugs. When she struggled with addiction she ended up homeless, often couch surfing from place to place and staying with different friends and family before moving on, and carrying most of her valuable things in her suitcase. Demri also suffered endocarditis (an inflammation of the inner layer of the heart, the endocardium, that can be caused by a bacterial infection. Risk factors include intravenous drug use, and electronic pacemakers). For her last hours, she was at a house with a friend, who took her to Evergreen Hospital in Kirkland, Washington, and who recognized too late that she wasn't doing well on the pills she'd ingested. Demri lapsed into a coma and spent the last 12 hours of her life unconscious in an intensive care unit at Evergreen Hospital, with only her mother and her aunt by her side, before doctors turned off the life-support machines on the morning of October 29, 1996. Her cause of death was an acute intoxication and the combined effects of opiate, meprobamate and butalbital. She was only 27. Alice in Chains manager Susan Silver told journalist Greg Prato in his book "Grunge Is Dead: The Oral History of Seattle Rock Music" that she was the one who went to Layne's apartment to tell him that Demri had died. Friends comment that after Demri died, Layne was put on suicide watch for 24 hours. Demri Parrott was buried at the Miller-Woodlawn Memorial Park in Bremerton, Kitsap County, Washington, USA. Her memorial service took place on November 2 at Neighborhood Christian Center and donations were made to Harborview Adult Medicine Alcohol and Drug Rehabilitation, Harborview Medical Center (Seattle).